I've spent most of my adult life trying to figure out who I actually am.
Now I help other people do the same.

01

The version of success that didn't fit.

I was born in Budapest. Grew up in Australia. Ended up in Hollywood with a music career that somehow hit the US Top 40.

I say "somehow" not to be falsely modest — it was real work and I'm proud of it — but because even at the peak of it, something didn't quite fit. I was living a version of success that looked exactly the way success is supposed to look. And I kept waiting to feel like myself inside of it.

I didn't.

So I left.

02

Leaving wasn't rational. It was necessary.

Leaving the entertainment industry to go figure yourself out is not the most rational career decision. My bank account at the time agreed strongly with that assessment.

But I had this nagging suspicion that if I didn't stop and actually look at what was going on inside — why I kept making the same decisions, why certain relationships kept ending the same way, why I could build things externally and still feel fundamentally unsettled — I was going to spend the rest of my life doing very impressive things while quietly losing the plot.

So I went deep. Into psychology, philosophy, human behaviour, mindfulness, movement, relationships — all of it. Not to become a guru. Because I genuinely needed to understand how people work. Starting with me.

03

What I found — and what I've spent a decade working with in other people.

Most of us are carrying around a version of ourselves we built for everyone else.

Not consciously. Nobody sits down at 25 and says "I'm going to spend the next 20 years becoming increasingly unlike myself." But it happens. Through the expectations we inherit. The identities we perform. The stories we tell about who we are and what we deserve. The compromises we make so quietly we stop noticing we're making them.

Underneath all of that is the original version. Still there. Still relevant. Still trying to get a word in.

My job is to help you find your way back to that person.

04

Fatherhood changed everything I thought I knew.

I should also mention: I'm a father.

I say this not as a throwaway line but because fatherhood has tested everything I thought I knew about myself more thoroughly than anything else in my life. It's exposed every pattern, every fear, every unresolved thing with a clarity that nothing else could replicate.

It's also given me more material than I know what to do with. Hence the podcast.

The point is: I know what it's like to be a fully functioning adult who still doesn't have it all figured out. I'm not standing on the other side of the mountain shouting down at you. I'm somewhere on the path, same as you, just maybe a few turns ahead.

05

The work now.

My work spans coaching, podcasting, speaking and retreats. But the thread running through all of it is the same:

Help people remember who they are.

Not the optimised, productive, high-performing version. The real one. The one that existed before the world told you what to do with yourself.

That's the work. And if it sounds like something you need, you're probably right.